{"product_id":"secure-love-create-a-relationship-that-lasts-a-lifetime","title":"Secure Love: Create a Relationship That Lasts a Lifetime","description":"\u003cb\u003eCreate a lasting and loving attachment with this national bestseller, a \"must-read for every couple, at any stage of their relationship\" (Lori Gottlieb, \u003ci\u003e New York Times \u003c\/i\u003ebestselling author of \u003ci\u003eMaybe You Should Talk to Someone\u003c\/i\u003e) from the expert couple's therapist behind the popular Instagram account @TheSecureRelationship.\u003c\/b\u003e \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eWhat does a healthy relationship look like? \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eA good question, in theory, but couple's therapist Julie Menanno wants you to consider: what does a \u003ci\u003esecurely attached\u003c\/i\u003e relationship \u003ci\u003efeel \u003c\/i\u003elike? \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eThe answer to this question is the ultimate goal in \u003ci\u003eSecure Love\u003c\/i\u003e, an \"incredibly wise and helpful guide\" (Jen Sincero, \u003ci\u003eNew York Times \u003c\/i\u003ebestselling author of \u003ci\u003eYou Are a Badass\u003c\/i\u003e) to understanding secure attachment in adult relationships. While attachment theory has grown in popularity to explain the relationship between children and their caregivers, it's also the closest science has come to making sense of our adult romantic connections. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003eIn this book Julie Menanno, the expert behind the popular Instagram account @TheSecureRelationship, tackles: \u003cbr\u003e -Why you and your partner have the same fight over and over (hint: it's called a negative cycle, and underlying every fight, argument, silent treatment, or passive-aggressive comment is an unmet attachment need).\u003cbr\u003e -\"Instead of that, say this\" suggested scripts of how to approach difficult situations in your relationship more effectively.\u003cbr\u003e -The four attachment types, with exercises to understand you and your partner's attachment style.\u003cbr\u003e -How to improve communication, including staying connected during conflict by prioritizing vulnerability rather than protecting yourself.\u003cbr\u003e -Why insecure attachment negatively impacts a couple's sex life and how to ignite that sexual connection. \u003cp\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\u003ci\u003eSecure Love \u003c\/i\u003eis a crash course in understanding how you show up in a relationship and guides you on getting out of negative cycles to find safety in one another. In doing so, \"you'll be armed with eternal wisdom for strengthening your relationship\" (Dr. Sue Johnson, founder of Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples and bestselling author of \u003ci\u003eHold Me Tight\u003c\/i\u003e) and establish a secure attachment with your partner to create the bond you've been longing for.","brand":"Simon \u0026 Schuster","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":51938527052007,"sku":"9781668012864","price":27.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0449\/4075\/5096\/files\/imageloader_2ce23d34-c7d6-4426-a897-1f05902d3c2e.jpg?v=1775062413","url":"https:\/\/arvidabookco.com\/products\/secure-love-create-a-relationship-that-lasts-a-lifetime","provider":"Arvida Book Co.","version":"1.0","type":"link"}